标题:IfYouWanttoHelpProtectPeopleFromSuicide,StopTellingThem‘You’reFine’ source:theblaze丨JarridWilson 翻译请保留原文链接哦 欲翻译的小伙伴,可评论领稿,并把已完成的译文发在自己的心理圈or个人主页的日志内。请领稿的小伙伴,尽量在一个星期内完成翻译,谢谢!! Mentalhealthisnolightheartedsubject。Severedepression,anxiety,PTSDandsuicidaltendencieshavebecomeaworldwideepidemic。Andournationisnotimmune:Suicideisthe10thleadingcauseofdeathinAmerica,withoneAmericandyingbysuicideevery13minutes。 Butwhilethepainandagonyofmentalhealthcontinuestoexpanditsreachamongindividualsaroundtheworld,itseemsthatunderstandingandcompassionforthisissuehascontinuedtofallshort。Mentalhealthissuesarebeingdownplayedasthoughtheyarenothingbutacoldorarashinneedofsomesimplisticoverthecountermedication。Sufferersofmentalhealthproblemsaretold“you’refine”andto“justgetoverit。” Imagesource:S Imagesource:Shutterstockhikrcn It’snotourplacetodiagnosethefeelingsofthosewhoarebrokenandheavyhearted。Ouronlyjobistobethereduringtheirtimeofneed,offerthemcomfortnotcriticismandlendthemahelpinghandofsupport。 Encounteringsomeonewhodealswithmentalhealthissuesisalotmorecommonthanonemightthink,seeingasnearlyoneinfiveAmericanadults43。7millionexperiencesmentalillnesseveryyear。Ifthatseemsoverwhelming,consider: Onein10Americansisaffectedbydepression。 Morethan80percentofpeoplewhoareclinicallydepressedarenotreceivingtreatment。 Thenumberofpeoplediagnosedwithdepressionincreasesbyabout20percenteveryyear。 Anestimated121millionpeopleworldwidesufferfromdepression。 In2013,41,149suicideswerereportedintheUnitedStates,whichwasthehighestrateofsuicidesince1987。 Howwerespondtothoseindividualscantrulybethedifferencebetweenlifeanddeath,andthewayweinteractwithsomeonewhostruggleswithmentalhealthissuesmustbetakenwithextremecautionandempathy。 Wemustnotlowerourunderstandingoftheseverityofdepressionandmentalhealthissuesto“justfeelingbad”or“havingabadfewmonths。”Thisisanissuerooteddeepwithintheheartandmindofthoseaffected。Wemustcometotheaidofthosewhoarehurtingandinpainandtrulyvaluethesanctityoflife。 Frommyexperience,hereare10waystohelpprotectpeoplefromsuicide: 1。Listentotheircries。 2。Stoptellingthem“You’refine。” 3。Takeeverycallforhelpseriously。 4。Beaplaceofsafetyandcomfort。 5。Letthemknowit’sOKtonotbeOK。 6。Helpthemfindacomforplaceforcounselingandsupport。 7。Don’tdiscouragethemfrommedicationbecauseofyourpersonalpreference。 8。Remindthemoftheirvalue,worthandGodgivenpurpose。 9。Beascratchingpost,apersontheycanventto。 10。Prayer。Prayer。Prayer。 MywifeandIhavemetwithandcounseleddozensofyoungpeopleoverthelastyear,allsharingwithusthebrutalbattlethatistakingplacewithintheirsouls。Suicideattempts,PTSD,cutting,depressionandanxietyarejustthebeginningofwhatthesewerefacing。 Weneedthechurchtostepupinit’seffortstobemorevocalregardingmentalillness。Whetherthroughasermonseries,freeresources,creatingnonprofitsorevenacultivatingadesignatedyearlongministry,thechurchshouldbeonthefrontlinesofthisbattle。Peopleneedasafeplacewheretheycanbehonestandtransparentwithwhattheyaregoingthrough。 Ifyouorsomeoneyouknowisstrugglingwithdepression,anxietyorhaseventhoughtofsuicide,pleasegivethemtheresourcesbelowanddonotwaitanotherminute: HeartSupport。 MyBrokenPalace。 ToWriteLoveOnHerArms。 NationalSuicidePreventionLifeline。