4WaysToNotLettheHatersGetYouDo

　　source：pickthebrain
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　　Movingintothespotlighttakescourage。Youraiseyourheadaboveothers，andsometimespeoplewillwanttoknockyoubackdown。
　　AfamousAristotlequotesays：“Criticismissomethingyoucaneasilyavoidbysayingnothing，doingnothing，andbeingnothing。”
　　Whileweallwanttobeloved，noteveryoneisgoingtoloveyou。
　　Whetherit’sbecauseyou’vepublishedabook，gotthatgreatnewjob，yourbusinessisgoingwellorareestablishinganameforyourself，somepeoplewillalwaysbecriticalornegative。
　　Andforthosewhohavejuststartedtostandintothespotlight，thistypeofnegativefeedbackcanbeconfrontinganddistressing。Thetrickistonotthehatersgettoyou。
　　Sohowdoyoudealwiththehaters？
　　Notallcriticismisbad
　　Attimescriticismleadstopositiveoutcomes。Itopensyouuptonewperspectivesandhighlightsissuesthatcanbeimproved。Sometimesthisisn’teasy，butyoucangrowfromitifyouallowyourselfto。
　　Feelthelove
　　Deletethosenastyemails！Don’tkeeptheminyourinbox。Insteadkeepthepositiveonesandfeeltheloveandpositiveenergyfromthoseyouaresupportingyourjourney。Comebacktothemattimeandusethemtoboostmyconfidenceandreconnecttothereasonwhyaresteppingforward。
　　Liveinkindness
　　Practicingkindnessistransformationalandbeautiful。Thekindnessyouofferyourselfandotherscantransformasituation（andyourlife）。Thisalsoallowsforforgiveness，soyoudon’tcarrythestressandnegativeenergyaroundfromyourhaters。
　　Don’tgiveawayyourpower
　　Sometimesyoujustneedtosay“Screwyou”veryloudly！Usethehatetodriveyouforward。Don’tallowcrueltyornegativecommentsbringyoudown。Gooutthereandmakeithappenandseizeyourdreams。Believeinyourself。