source： 欲翻译的小伙伴，可评论领稿，并把已完成的译文贴在评论处或发在自己的心理圈内。请领稿的小伙伴，尽量在一个星期内完成翻译，谢谢！！ Thestatement，“Youcandoanythingyouputyourmindto，”leadsustobelievethatallyoumustdoisimaginewhatyou’dliketoaccomplish，setyourmindtothetask，andwaitforsuccess。 Toacertaindegreethisistrue。Focusedintentioncombinedwithactionisapowerfulforce。Butthestatementismisleadingbecauseitfailstomentionthedifficultyandnecessityoffocusingyourmindonaspecificgoal。 Mostofusdon’tknowwhatwewant。Wethinkwedo，butwereallydon’t。Weonlyknowwhatwedon’twant。Wedon’twantaboringjob。Wedon’twanttobepoor。Wedon’twanttodisappointourlovedones。 Knowingspecificallywhatyouwantismuchdifferentthanknowingwhatyoudon’twant。Whenyouonlyknowwhatyoudon’twant，yourintentionsaren’tfocused。Considerthisexample。 Petedoesn’twanttobepoor。He’ssickofearninglessthanhisfriends，andhe’sdeterminedtoraisehisstatus。Toaccomplishthisgoal，Petecouldtakemanydifferentpaths。Hecouldtrainforahighpayingprofession，suchasdoctororlawyer。Hecouldstarthisowncompany，gointorealestate，ordomanyotherthingsthatwouldleadtoacquiringwealth。 ButPeteisn’tsurewhathewantstodo。Hedoesn’tknowwhichpathbestfitshisskillsandpersonality，sohedoesn’tresolvetofollowanyparticularpath。 Hopingtoanswerthisquestion，heinvestigatesadozenpossibilities，butassoonasherunsintoadversityhedecidesthatpathisn’tforhimandmovesontoanewsolution。 Pete’sactionsaren’tfocused。Althoughheworksveryhard，hiseffortsdon’tbuildoneachother。Ratherthanbuildingonegiantimpenetrablesandcastle，Petehasbuilttwentysmallsonesthatareeasilytoppled。Heendsupconfusedanddiscouraged。UltimatelyPete’slackoffocusleadstofailure。 Now，whatifPetehadchosenaspecificpath？Supposehedecidedonthelawprofession。Hisactionswouldhavebeenclearlydefined： GetahighscoreontheLSAT Attainlettersofrecommendation Getacceptedtoagoodlawschool Decideonafieldoflaw Earnalawdegree Findahighpayingjobwithagoodlawfirm Asetofspecificgoalsismucheasiertoachievethanavagueendgoallikebecomingwealthy。BeingfocusedonapathgivesPetealogicalsetofactionstofollow。Eachaccomplishmentisonestepclosertothefinalgoal。 Ithinkwecanallagreethatcommittingtoaclearlydefinedpath，regardlessofwhichone，givesPetethebestchanceofbecomingwealthy。 Buthowcanhechooseapathifhedoesn’tknowwhathewants？Maybemoneyisn’thisonlygoal。Maybehewantstodosomethinghelovesatthesametime。Maybehecan’taffordtogobacktoschool。Realityiscomplicated，andPetedoesn’twanttocommittoosoon。 Andthat’swhyhefails。 ButIdon’tthinkthat’snecessarilyabadthing。Mostpeopledon’tfitneatlyintoapredefinedpath。Forcingyourselfintoonemayleadtosuccess，butitprobablywon’tmakeyouhappy。 Thisisthepoint。Ifyouwanttobeconventionallysuccessful，toattainwealthandstatus，youneedtochooseaspecificpath（preferablysomethingmainstream）andfollowittotheletter。 Ontheotherhand，ifyouaren’tparticularlyconcernedwithwealthorsuccess，youcantakeyourtimesearchingforthatperfectniche。 Justdon’twaittoolongtodecide。Eachmomentyoudeliberate，youralreadycommittedcompetitorssprintfurtherahead。 But，thenagain，maybelifeisn’tarace，andmaybethemostinterestingpeoplefollowapathalltheirown。
心理学家谈中国股市，快牛和快熊都由中国人共性特质决定不要向我表白：不确定的爱更吸引女生你的内心，本拥有改变命运的力量恐怖电影背后的心理分析孩子是天使，父母却不是上帝林怀民：其实人生不用那么急你是否想去看看门外的世界？原来你心中的男神长这样！为什么你无法改变自己的坏习惯？父母是亲人，而不是主人人生不该梭哈别再逼他说“我爱你”了