不要轻易评论别人

　　置身事外，谁都可以心平气和，身处其中，谁还可以淡定从容？所以请不要轻易评论任何人，因为你不在其中。
　　Outside the matter, anyone can be calm, in the middle of it, who can still be calm and calm? So please don＂t comment on anyone lightly because you are not among them。
　　我们没有经历别人所经历，我们不是当事人，所以我们不可轻易评论别人的举动言语。我们所说的应该淡定从容，当我们自己身处事中时也就只成了说说而已，或许根本做不到。我们无权干涉别人的生活，无权去评论什么，更无权指责什么。别人的事只是属于别人的，过程和结果都由别人自己负责，而我们能做的不过是管好自己。
　　We have not experienced what others have experienced, we are not parties, so we cannot easily comment on the actions and words of others. What we say should be calm and calm, and when we are in the middle of things, it is just talk, maybe we can＂t do it at all. We have no right to interfere in other people＂s lives, to comment on anything, and even less to accuse anything. Other people＂s affairs belong to others, the process and results are the responsibility of others, and all we can do is manage ourselves。
　　多想想自己在遇事时的感受和反应，就能对别人多一些理解，多一些仁慈。因为理解而慈悲。对个人都在进行一场修行，在修行的路途中需要的是理解和鼓励。因为自己需要应该知道别人也需要。我们自己最烦别人对我们指手画脚，所以我们不能对别人指手画脚。我们若做不到去理解和支持，我们至少做到不评判，不指责，做好一个旁观者，一个看客。
　　By thinking more about how you feel and react when things happen, you can be more understanding and kindness to others. Be compassionate because of understanding. Inpiduals are engaged in a practice, and what is needed on the path of practice is understanding and encouragement. Because you need it, you should know that others need it. We ourselves are most annoying to be told by others, so we can＂t dictate to others. If we can＂t understand and support, we can at least be a bystander and a spectator without judgment or accusation。
　　很多时候，对别人最好的尊重就是不言语，只做一个倾听者。很多时候我们的家人朋友遇到问题找我们倾诉，寻求帮助的时候，我们能做的不过是默默陪伴，只要看着，听着，感受着就好。
　　Many times, the best respect for others is to be silent and just be a listener. Many times when our family and friends encounter problems and talk to us and ask for help, all we can do is to accompany silently, just watch, listen, and feel。
　　我们无法给出更好的解决方法，因为我们不是当事人，没有经历，又有何资格去进行评论呢。人最容易犯的错就是自以为是。认清这一点，我们可以给予别人更多他们所需要的爱和关怀。
　　We can＂t come up with a better solution, because we＂re not parties and have no experience, so how qualified we are to comment. The most common mistake people make is self-righteousness. By recognizing this, we can give others more of the love and care they need。