价值交换Valueexchange

　　日本作家冈岛悦子在书籍《我在哈佛学到的人脉课》中写道：
　　＂我们结交人脉的目的绝非为了投机取巧、安逸地生活下去，而是为了借助人脉的力量登上施展抱负的舞台，实现自己的人生价值。＂
　　深以为然，有效的人际关系，不是物质交换，而是价值交换。
　　Japanese writer Yoshiko okashima wrote in his book ＂the networking course I learned at Harvard＂:
　　＂The purpose of making contacts is by no means to live a life of opportunism and ease, but to use the power of contacts to embark on the stage of ambition and realize our life value.＂
　　I deeply believe that effective interpersonal relationship is not material exchange, but value exchange.
　　帮你忙的人，不要请吃饭来报答，请缔造有效的人脉，才能让感情生生不息。
　　请求别人帮忙后，偿还人情一定要过量，因为社交的本质不是等价交换。
　　欠下人情后，不要害怕还不起，而要主动承担责任，今天你帮我，日后我帮你。
　　人与人之间相互麻烦后，才能彼此成就，共赴未来。
　　你急人之困，我雪中送炭，你投之以桃，我报之以李，实现双赢。
　　Those who help you, don＂t invite dinner to repay. Please create effective contacts in order to keep your feelings alive.
　　After asking for help, you must repay too much, because the essence of social intercourse is not equal exchange.
　　After you owe a favor, don＂t be afraid to pay it back, but take the initiative to take responsibility. Help me today and I＂ll help you in the future.
　　Only when people have trouble with each other can they achieve each other and go to the future together.
　　If you are in a hurry, I will help you in the snow. If you throw a peach into it, I will repay it with Lee and achieve a win-win situation.