淡定Calmdown

　　花开无语，芳华烁烁；花落无言，余香阵阵。
　　人生亦如这无言的花开花落，绽放凋零，一切都将在岁月中老去，重归于尘，重归于土。
　　岁月催人老，行走在喧嚣纷繁的尘世，经历着潮起潮落的人生，岁月不仅把沧桑刻在了人的脸上，更是刻在了人的心里。
　　The flowers bloom speechless, and the flowers are shining; The flowers fall silent and the lingering fragrance bursts.
　　Life is also like this wordless flower, blooming and withering. Everything will grow old in the years, return to the dust and return to the earth.
　　Years urge people to grow old. Walking in the noisy world and experiencing the ups and downs of life, years not only engrave the vicissitudes on people＂s faces, but also on people＂s hearts.
　　走过＂恰同学少年，风华正茂＂的意气风发的少年时代，也走过＂当今之世，舍我其谁＂的激情燃烧的青春年华，不经意间，就走到了世事不惑、感知天命的人生秋天。
　　虽然做不到心如止水波澜不惊，但人却变得厚重沉稳了许多。
　　情绪中少了躁动，多了宁静；神态中少了桀傲，多了平和；生活中少了幻想，多了现实；做人少了棱角，多了浑圆；性格少了张扬，多了内敛。
　　忽然间，就体会到了淡定才是人生的最佳境界。
　　Through the vigorous youth of ＂just classmate youth, in full bloom＂, and through the passionate youth of ＂today＂s world, give up who I am＂, inadvertently, we have come to the autumn of life that is not confused by the world and feels the destiny.
　　Although you can＂t keep your mind calm, people have become thick and calm.
　　There is less restlessness and more tranquility in the mood; There is less arrogance and more peace in his expression; Life is less fantasy, more reality; Life is less angular, more round; Less publicity and more introversion.
　　Suddenly, I realized that calm is the best state of life.
　　这种淡定是经历了磨难和沧桑后的大气和胸襟，也是走过了起落和坎坷后的镇定和从容。
　　这种淡定是＂天地有大美而不言＂的无求和自足，是＂淡泊以明志，宁静以致远＂的超然与平和，是＂回首向来萧瑟处，也无风雨也无晴＂的豁达与超脱；
　　是＂采菊东篱下，悠然见南山＂的随性与洒脱；是＂行到水穷处，坐看云起时＂的从容与禅意。
　　This calmness is not only the atmosphere and mind after suffering and vicissitudes, but also the calm and calm after ups and downs and ups and downs.
　　This calmness is the self-sufficiency without seeking peace of ＂there is great beauty in heaven and earth without saying＂, the transcendence and peace of ＂indifference to make clear one＂s ambition, tranquility to go far＂, and the openness and detachment of ＂looking back on the bleak place, there is no wind, rain and sunshine＂;
　　＂Picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely see the Nanshan＂ is casual and free and easy; It is the calm and Zen meaning of ＂walking to the poor place, sitting and watching the clouds rise＂.
　　它表现为一种态度，胜不骄，败不馁，不以成败论英雄，尽人力听天命，心安既足；
　　它表现为一种风度，遇事放松自如，不温不躁，待人亲和有度，顺而有持，己所不欲不施于人；
　　它表现为一种修养，仁厚宽宏，包容大度，心怀坦荡，平实内敛，不以物喜不以已悲；
　　它表现为一种力量，面对外界的纷繁和喧嚣，气定神宁，坚持不懈，正所谓＂千磨万击还坚韧，任尔东南西北风＂。
　　It shows an attitude of not being arrogant in victory, not being discouraged in defeat, not talking about heroes based on success or failure, and doing our best to listen to heaven＂s destiny;
　　It is shown as a kind of demeanor, relaxed and free in case of trouble, not warm and impatient, friendly and moderate to others, Shun and hold, and do not do what you don＂t want to do to others;
　　It is a kind of self-cultivation, benevolent and generous, tolerant and magnanimous, plain and introverted, not happy with things, not sad;
　　It is manifested as a kind of strength. In the face of the complexity and noise of the outside world, it is calm, calm and persistent. It is the so-called ＂perseverance after thousands of grinding and thousands of blows, and let the southeast and northwest wind prevail＂.
　　淡定不是冷漠，它是冷眼观尽世间浮华，独守一份清静安宁。得意时不张狂，失意时不消沉。
　　是在人生的历练中涵养出的淡定从容的定力；淡定也不是软弱，它是虚怀若谷胸容万壑的境界，是沉稳成熟和自信心的体现。
　　正所谓＂仁者不忧，智者不惑，勇者不惧＂，淡定更不是愚钝，它是阅尽沧桑后的醒悟和了然于胸的坦然，是大智若愚难得糊涂的诠释。
　　是以隔岸观火的姿态，看他人忙碌，看他人追逐，我且珍惜的一种大智慧。
　　Calmness is not indifference, it is coldness, watching the flashiness of the world and keeping a quiet and peaceful life alone. Don＂t be arrogant when you are proud, and don＂t be depressed when you are frustrated.
　　It is the calm and calm strength cultivated in the experience of life; Calmness is not weakness. It is the state of being open-minded and containing thousands of valleys. It is the embodiment of calm maturity and self-confidence.
　　As the saying goes, ＂benevolent people are not worried, wise people are not confused, and brave people are not afraid＂, calmness is not stupidity. It is the awakening and calm after reading all the vicissitudes of life. It is an interpretation that great wisdom is like a fool, and it is difficult to get confused.
　　It is a kind of great wisdom that I cherish by watching others busy and chasing.
　　淡定是一种能力，淡定是一种积淀，淡定的人懂得过滤纷扰烦忧。
　　常言道：人生不如意事十之八九。
　　换言之，如意之事也就十之一二，而淡定的人会＂常想一二，不思八九＂，眼里多的是世间的风景和生活的美好。
　　其实，人需要的并不多，虽不能比颜回＂一箪食，一瓢水足矣＂，但简简单单的生活才最有味道。
　　＂仁者乐山山如画，智者乐水水无涯。从从容容一杯酒，平平淡淡一杯茶＂。
　　到最后，赤条条地来还要赤条条地走，一样东西也带不走。
　　Calm is a kind of ability, calm is a kind of accumulation, calm people know how to filter distractions and worries.
　　As the saying goes: nine times out of ten, life is not as good as intention.
　　In other words, one or two out of ten good things happen, and calm people ＂often think about one or two and don＂t think about eight or nine＂. They have more eyes on the scenery of the world and the beauty of life.
　　In fact, people don＂t need much. Although it can＂t be compared with Yan Hui＂s ＂a pot of food and a ladle of water is enough＂, a simple life is the most delicious.
　　＂Benevolent people enjoy picturesque mountains, wise people enjoy boundless water. Take a glass of wine calmly and a cup of tea gently＂.
　　In the end, when you come naked, you have to walk naked, and you can＂t take anything with you.
　　人来世上走一遭，很不容易，不要太为难自己。应该学会享受生活，不奢求不属于自己的东西，也不必强做自己力所不能之事。
　　有些欲望可以抑制，有些争执可以让步，有些人可以疏远，有些东西可以不要，有些话可以不屑……
　　该得到的，就用心用力去争取，不该得到的，看看，想想也就罢了，没必要费尽心机。得之我幸，不得我命。
　　It＂s not easy for people to walk in the next world. Don＂t embarrass yourself too much. We should learn to enjoy life, don＂t expect things that don＂t belong to us, and don＂t have to do things we can＂t do.
　　Some desires can be suppressed, some disputes can be compromised, some people can be alienated, some things can be avoided, and some words can be disdained
　　If you should get something, try hard. If you shouldn＂t get something, just look at it and think about it. There＂s no need to try hard. I＂m lucky, not my life.
　　当然，淡定不是无所追求，不是消极处世刻意放纵，也不是自我封闭，孤芳自赏。
　　淡定的人更在意的是内心的丰盈，无论闲忙，都要学习知识。
　　不求琴棋书画样样精通，也不求学富五车满腹经纶，只求丰富自己的内涵，多点儒雅，少点市侩，学会建立一个丰富高贵的精神世界，让自己的生活多些诗意和温馨。
　　Of course, calmness is not nothing to pursue, nor is it a deliberate indulgence in a negative life, nor is it self sealing and self admiration.
　　Calm people care more about their inner abundance. They should learn knowledge regardless of their leisure.
　　I don＂t want to be proficient in all kinds of music, chess, calligraphy and painting, nor study. I want to enrich my connotation, be more elegant and less Philistine, learn to build a rich and noble spiritual world, and make my life more poetic and warm.
　　人生亦如这无言的花开花落，绽放凋零，一切都将在岁月中老去，重归于尘，重归于土。
　　行走在这纷繁喧嚣的世间，虽然做不到看破红尘无悲无喜得失两忘，也要修炼一颗淡定从容的心，泰然面对日出日落，月缺月圆，活出自己的美好人生。
　　Life is also like this wordless flower, blooming and withering. Everything will grow old in the years, return to the dust and return to the earth.
　　Walking in this complicated and noisy world, although you can＂t see through the world of mortals without sorrow, joy, gain and loss, you should also cultivate a calm and calm heart, calmly face the sunrise and sunset, lack the full moon, and live your own beautiful life.