熟不逾矩Maturebeyondthemoment

　　如果地球和太阳的距离再近1%，地球就是一个永恒的＂火焰山＂；如果再远3%，地球就是一个永恒的＂广寒宫＂。
　　现在的距离不远不近，恰到好处。所以不是＂距离产生美＂，而是＂合适的距离产生美＂。
　　其实，人与人之间，关系再好，也要把握度。
　　不该谈及的话，不谈，不该求的事，不求，不该有的干预，不要超过和逾越。
　　If the distance between the earth and the sun is 1%, the earth is an eternal ＂Flame Mountain＂; If it is further 3%, the earth is an eternal ＂Guanghan Palace＂.
　　Now the distance is not far or near, just right. Therefore, it is not ＂distance produces beauty＂, but ＂appropriate distance produces beauty＂.
　　In fact, no matter how good the relationship between people is, we should also grasp the degree.
　　What should not be talked about, what should not be asked, what should not be asked, what should not be intervened, do not exceed and exceed.
　　＂最好的关系，不是不分你我，而是熟不逾矩。＂
　　许多时刻，我们以为关系好，就可以无所顾忌。
　　可以说一些伤害对方的话，做一些为难对方的事，去替别人做一些不想要的选择和决定。
　　其实，在人际交往中，该有的避讳，该有的原则，该有的界限，一样都不能少。
　　与朋友们共勉。
　　＂The best relationship is not between you and me, but between you and me.＂
　　Many times, we think that if we have a good relationship, we can be reckless.
　　You can say something to hurt each other, do something to embarrass each other, and make some unwanted choices and decisions for others.
　　In fact, in interpersonal communication, there should be taboos, principles and boundaries.
　　Encourage with friends.