双语善良的人往往没有好报？认为自己善良却不顺的都来看看！

　　你是否有这样的经历？
　　总是把别人的需求放在第一位
　　因为害怕别人的否定
　　所以压抑自己的感受
　　因为害怕他人的敌意
　　所以选择了忍耐
　　总是处于自我苛责和挑剔的状态 这种心理模式下的善良 其实就是一种自我攻击
　　Do you have such experience? Always put the needs of others first, because they are afraid of others＂ negation, so they repress their feelings. Because they are afraid of others＂ hostility, so they choose to endure. They are always in a state of self-criticism and self-criticism. Goodness in this psychological mode is actually a kind of self-attack.
　　有句话说的好：
　　不要因为善良 给别人撑了伞 却淋湿了自己
　　There is a good saying: Don＂t wet yourself by holding an umbrella for others because of kindness.
　　你要明白不是所有人都懂得珍惜和感激。
　　You should understand that not everyone knows how to cherish and appreciate.
　　善良的前提，是要对自己善良，先爱自己，再爱他人，才是真正的智慧和善意。
　　The premise of kindness is to be kind to yourself, love yourself first, and then love others, which is true wisdom and kindness.
　　人生里的业报就是这样，你做了好事，老天爷都看在眼里。你行了恶事，一笔一划都记录在命运的轨迹里。
　　This is the karma in life. If you do something good, God will see it. If you have done bad things, then every stroke is recorded in the track of fate.
　　如果，你做了善事，却没有善报。不能说善良无用，而是你的＂善意＂还未达到有善报的程度。
　　If you do a good deed, but don＂t repay it. It can＂t be said that kindness is useless, but your ＂kindness＂ has not reached the level of good retribution.
　　最后，希望所有人都记得二句话：
　　第一句：但行好事，莫问前程
　　善恶自有天知，如果你的善举暂时没有得到回报，那么一定有大福在后头。善报恶报一般都不会现报，记住乘除加减，上有苍穹。
　　Good and evil are known by God. If your good deeds are not rewarded for the time being, there must be great blessings ahead. Good retribution and bad retribution are generally not immediate.
　　第二句：相由心生
　　一个人的善恶，会由内而外地在脸上展现出来。一个人的长相，就是一个人精神面貌的体现。
　　颜值可以美容，但掩盖不了本色。
　　气质可以塑造，但脱离不了本性。
　　真正善良有爱之人，往往从内而外散发着一种光芒。
　　因为内外合一，心善则貌美。
　　A person＂s good and evil will be shown on his face from inside out. A person＂s appearance is the embodiment of his spiritual outlook. The appearance can be beautified, but it cannot cover up the true color. Temperament can be shaped, but it cannot be separated from nature. The truly kind and loving people often radiate a light from the inside out. Because internal and external integration, good heart is beautiful.