现在的社会，人与人之间的关系，冷漠的可怕

　　现在的社会，
　　人与人之间的关系，
　　冷漠的可怕，
　　即使是亲兄弟姐妹，
　　成年立业后，
　　也是越来越冷淡，
　　有些兄弟姐妹之间的关系连朋友都不如，
　　你过好了她们嫉妒你，
　　过得不好就看不起你，
　　彼此之间都互相攀比，
　　随着经济实力，
　　地位与声望的差距逐渐拉大，
　　兄弟姐妹间能够交流的话题也会越来越少，对生活的认知也各有不同，
　　毕竟因为利益问题，
　　兄弟姐妹的关系连邻居都不如。
　　In today＂s society, the relationship between people is terrible. Even brothers and sisters become more and more indifferent after they become adults. Some brothers and sisters are even worse than friends. They envy you when you are well, and look down on you when you are not well. They all keep up with each other. As the gap between economic strength, status and prestige gradually widens,
　　世界上 ，
　　路是没有走不通的，
　　只有人会想不通，
　　人生的高度，
　　不是你看清了多少事，
　　而是你看轻了多少事，
　　生活中有太多无奈，
　　总让人身不由己，
　　不要总想着人生道路可以一帆风顺，
　　没有走不通的路，
　　只有想不通的人，
　　经历多了你就知道，
　　如果自己没有本事，
　　再多的社交也都是浮尘。
　　In the world, there is no road that can＂t get through. Only people can＂t figure it out. The height of life is not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you underestimate. There are too many helplessness in life, and people can＂t help themselves. Don＂t always think that the road of life can be smooth, and there is no road that can＂t get through. Only people who can＂t figure it out, after more experience, you will know that no amount of social interaction will be dust.
　　人，
　　一旦有了隔阂，
　　就真的走不近了，
　　这世上只有和好，
　　并没有如初，
　　和好容易，如初太难，
　　我们总以为自己执着一些，
　　自己多努力一些，
　　自己多付出一些，
　　对方就会看到我们的好，
　　就会记得我们的好，
　　有些人有些事，
　　有些感情有些情谊，
　　嘴上说的再感人肺腑，
　　但是我知道，
　　再也回不去从前了。
　　你希望别人好，
　　别人未必好，
　　但你肯定好，
　　因为你心存美好。
　　Once there is a gap between people, we can＂t really get close. In this world, there is only reconciliation, but it＂s not the same as before. Reconciliation is easy, but it＂s too difficult. We always think that if we persist, work harder and pay more, the other party will see our kindness and remember our kindness. Some people have some things, some feelings and some friendships, and what we say is touching, but I know that we can never go back to the past. You want others to be good, others may not be good, but you must be good, because you have a good heart.
　　人生百态，
　　五味杂陈，
　　生活藏着多少辛酸，
　　人生，
　　就是一边拥有，一边失去；
　　一边选择，一边放弃，
　　今天陌生的，是昨天熟悉的，
　　现在记住的，是以后淡忘的，
　　生活就像一杯白开水，
　　你每天都在喝，
　　不要羡慕别人喝五颜六色的饮料，
　　它未必有你的白开水解渴，
　　人生不是靠心情活着，
　　而要靠心态去生活。
　　Life is full of mixed tastes, and how much bitterness is hidden in life. Life is to have while losing; Give up while choosing. What is strange today is familiar yesterday. What you remember now is forgotten later. Life is like a cup of boiled water. You drink it every day. Don＂t envy others for their colorful drinks. It may not have your boiled water to quench your thirst. Life depends not on your mood, but on your state of mind.
　　做事重选择，
　　做人轻得失，
　　人生有得就有失，
　　凡事有失就有得，
　　生活本来就没顺境，
　　更没有什么叫困境，
　　人生不是完美的，
　　有得必有失，
　　人生有得就有失，
　　有失就有得，
　　这是人生的辩证法和哲学观，
　　人生不可能十全十美，
　　人们常说，
　　机不可失时不再来，
　　其实这就是讲，人在选择时，
　　要掌握好时机，要拿捏好分寸，
　　活出自己的人生，
　　为自己的人生加油！
　　Pay attention to choices, be a man and ignore gains and losses. If you have gains and losses, you will have gains. If you lose everything, you will have gains. Life is not perfect. If you have gains, you will have losses. If you lose, you will have gains. This is the dialectics and philosophy of life. Life can＂t be perfect. People often say that you will never come again when you can＂t miss it. In fact, this means that when you make a choice, you should have a good time.