羡慕和嫉妒的区别Thedifferencebetweenenvyandjealousy

　　1：离的远的羡慕，离的近的嫉妒；
　　2：比自己强很多的羡慕，比自己强一点的嫉妒；
　　3：和自己没有利益关系的羡慕，和自己有利益关系的嫉妒。
　　所以，嫉妒一旦形成，就是认可自己的无能和低贱。
　　嫉妒心强的人，只能选择不如自己的人做朋友，因为他们的满足感需要建立在别人不如自己的基础上，于是他们生活在一群不如自己的人当中。
　　而那些善于欣赏和学习的人，则永远都会往上一个层次买进，因为他们不会因为别人比自己强而痛苦。相反，他们却很享受和这些人一起的过程，因为这样才能进步，于是他们生活在一群更优秀的人当中。
　　1: Envy from far away, envy from near;
　　2: Envy much stronger than yourself, envy a little stronger than yourself;
　　3: Envy that has no interest relationship with oneself, envy that has interest relationship with oneself.
　　Therefore, once jealousy is formed, it is to recognize your incompetence and inferiority.
　　Jealous people can only choose people who are inferior to themselves as friends, because their satisfaction needs to be based on others who are inferior to themselves, so they live in a group of people who are inferior to themselves.
　　Those who are good at appreciation and learning will always buy up to a higher level, because they will not suffer because others are better than themselves. On the contrary, they enjoy the process with these people, because they can make progress, so they live in a group of better people.