别人尊重你，并不是因为你优秀，而是

　　我以为别人尊重我，是因为我很优秀。慢慢的我明白了，别人尊重我，是因为别人很优秀；优秀的人更懂得尊重别人。对人恭敬其实是在庄严你自己。——仓央嘉措
　　懂得尊重别人是做人最起码的要求。真正做到尊重别人，则是一种境界，一种美德。孟子有云：＂爱人者，人恒爱之；敬人者，人恒敬之。＂此话强调了尊重他人的重要性，一个人在与别人交往中，如果能很好的理解别人，尊重别人，那么他一定会得到别人百倍的理解和尊重。
　　优秀的人对谁都会尊重。尊重领导是一种天职，尊重同事是一种本分，尊重下属是一种美德，尊重客户是一种常识，尊重对手是一种大度，尊重所有人是一种教养，可以说尊重的魅力无限。
　　I think others respect me because I am excellent. Slowly I understand that others respect me because others are excellent; Excellent people know how to respect others. Being respectful to others is actually honoring yourself—— Tsangyang Gyatso
　　Knowing how to respect others is the minimum requirement of being a man. Truly respecting others is a realm and a virtue. Mencius said, ＂those who love others will always love them; those who respect others will always respect them.＂ this remark emphasizes the importance of respecting others. If a person can understand and respect others well in his communication with others, he will be understood and respected by others a hundred times.
　　Good people respect everyone. Respect for leadership is a bounden duty, respect for colleagues is a duty, respect for subordinates is a virtue, respect for customers is a common sense, respect for opponents is magnanimous, respect for everyone is a kind of education, and it can be said that respect has unlimited charm.
　　任何人都不可能尽善尽美，我们没有理由以高山仰止的目光去审视别人，也没有资格用不屑一顾的神情去伤害别人的自尊，假如自己某些方面不如别人，我们也不必以自卑或嫉妒去代替应有的自尊。只有学会尊重别人，才能赢得别人的尊重。其实尊重别人就是尊重自己。
　　No one can be perfect. We have no reason to look at others with lofty eyes, nor are we qualified to hurt others＂ self-esteem with a look of disdain. If we are inferior to others in some aspects, we don＂t have to replace our due self-esteem with inferiority or jealousy. Only by learning to respect others can we win the respect of others. In fact, respecting others is respecting yourself.
　　心宽一尺路宽一丈，敞开心胸善待所有人。无论是你喜欢的还是讨厌的，无论是你的朋友还是你的敌人，都要尊重他们，这是一种勇气更是一种智慧！
　　The heart is a foot wide and the road is a foot wide. Open your heart and be kind to everyone. No matter what you like or hate, whether it＂s your friends or your enemies, you should respect them. This is not only a kind of courage, but also a kind of wisdom!