教养Education

　　女人可以貌不出众，可以平淡无奇，可以资质愚钝，甚至可以没多少气质，但是不可以没有教养。有教养的女人，处世落落大方，不亢不卑，不张扬，不显摆，似一株幽兰，芬芳 四溢而不自知；有教养的女人善解人意，通达世情，不天真，不偏激，在任何突发变故面前都能处变不惊。
　　有教养的女人，面对男人的追求，不盲目的惊慌，不虚荣的窃喜，懂得端庄之中辨真情，懂得怎样用婉转的措辞拒绝倾慕。当男人决定离开的时候，即使无助的泪往心里流，也不挽留，不痴缠，懂得缘尽而散，放手，是给他一条出路，也是给自己留一条生路。
　　Women can not be outstanding, can be ordinary, can be dull, or even have little temperament, but they can＂t be without education.
　　An educated woman is generous in life, neither arrogant nor humble, not publicized or displayed, like a orchid, overflowing with fragrance without knowing it; Educated women are considerate, knowledgeable, not naive, not extreme, and can deal with changes in the face of any sudden changes.
　　Educated women, in the face of men＂s pursuit, do not panic blindly, do not rejoice in vanity, know how to distinguish the true feelings in dignity, and know how to refuse admiration with tactful words. When a man decides to leave, even if his helpless tears flow to his heart, he doesn＂t retain or entangle. He knows that it＂s the end of fate. Letting go is not only a way out for him, but also a way out for himself.
　　有教养的女人，面对名利金钱的诱惑，会三思而行，反复斟酌，不会轻易让自己陷入尴尬的处境。有教养的女人，在平静的岁月，是柔风细雨，于淡然中抒旖旎柔情。
　　有教养的女人，在遭遇人生挫折的时候，是高山大川，在险峰处揽无限风光。教养，是日常生活细节中给人的一种印象，一种说不出道不明的感觉。
　　Educated women, in the face of the temptation of fame, wealth and money, will think twice and think again, and will not easily put themselves in an embarrassing situation. Educated women, in quiet years, are gentle wind and drizzle, expressing their beautiful tenderness in indifference.
　　Educated women, in the face of setbacks in life, are mountains and rivers, and take unlimited scenery at dangerous peaks. Upbringing is an impression given to people in the details of daily life, a feeling of unspeakable and unknown.
　　一个人的教养不是可以一蹴而就的，也不是单纯的礼貌，是一种习惯的积累，一种涵养的综合。如果教养是花，而智慧则是不可或缺的养分，智慧之于女人是博爱与宽容，是充满自信的风采，是情感的丰盈与独立，更是不计较得失的平衡心态。
　　有教养的女人，不一定家世良好，但大都爱好读书和学习，懂得只有知识的充实和强大，才能忠实自己，受益一生。
　　有教养的女人，不一定坚强独立，但大都崇尚本真的自我，懂得只有心灵的纯净和善良，才能感受生命的真实。
　　有教养的女人，即使看透世态炎凉，人情冷暖，依然对生活充满激情。明了万紫千红也好，繁华落尽也罢，都不过是人生的过眼烟云。一味的计较得失，只是自寻烦恼，自苦苦人。
　　A person＂s upbringing can not be achieved overnight, nor is it a simple politeness. It is an accumulation of habits and a synthesis of self-restraint. If education is a flower, and wisdom is an indispensable nutrient, wisdom to women is fraternity and tolerance, a style full of self-confidence, emotional abundance and independence, and a balanced mentality regardless of gain and loss.
　　Educated women may not have a good family background, but most of them like reading and learning. They know that only with the enrichment and strength of knowledge can they be faithful to themselves and benefit their whole life.
　　Educated women are not necessarily strong and independent, but most of them advocate the true self and know that only the purity and goodness of the heart can feel the truth of life.
　　Educated women are still full of passion for life even if they see through the coldness of the world and the warmth of human relations. Whether it is clear that everything is colorful or prosperous, it is just a passing cloud of life. Blindly care about gain and loss, just looking for trouble and suffering.
　　天下所有的母亲都希望自己的孩子成为一个有教养的人，成为一个受人尊敬的人。而如果母亲没有教养，孩子会有教养吗？因此，女性们特别是那些想做母亲的女性是不可以没有教养的。
　　男人通常尊敬那些富有教养和内涵的女人，并且常常试图和她们接近，保持某 种亲密状态，并且以此为荣，而且依恋、迷恋于这种关系。
　　如果条件允许，能把这样的女人娶回家，共度一生，将是他们的人生梦想之一。
　　All mothers in the world want their children to be educated and respected. And if the mother is not educated, will the child be educated? Therefore, women, especially those who want to be mothers, can not be uncivilized.
　　Men usually respect women who are rich in education and connotation, and often try to get close to them, maintain a certain intimate state, take pride in it, and are attached to and infatuated with this relationship.
　　If conditions permit, it will be one of their life dreams to marry such a woman home and spend their life together.