一个人想要变强，一定要把胆子放大，而后把面子放小

　　一个人想要变强，一定要把胆子放大，而后把面子放小。少在乎别人的看法，做错了，大不了挨几句骂，又不掉肉，但要是做对了，那可就不一样了。
　　If a person wants to be strong, he must enlarge his courage and then reduce his face. Pay little attention to other people＂s opinions. If you do something wrong, you will get a few words of scolding, but if you do it right, it will be different.
　　你可以善良不可以心软。
　　对人的时候，
　　可以不计回报。
　　但对事的时候，
　　就别讲究感情。
　　一个人越是心软，
　　越是有受不完的苦。
　　你记住，
　　现实就是现实，
　　讲钱就别讲感情，
　　讲感情就别提钱。
　　别啥都想要，
　　最后啥也得不到。
　　You can be kind, not soft-hearted. When you treat people, you can ignore the reward. But when it comes to things, don＂t be sentimental. The softer a person is, the more he will suffer. Remember, reality is reality, don＂t talk about feelings when you talk about money, and don＂t mention money when you talk about feelings. Don＂t want everything, you＂ll get nothing in the end.
　　对待小人，
　　如果利益允许退让，那就退让，
　　如果利益不许退让，那就对抗。
　　记住，
　　尽量别和小人正面刚，
　　因为他们睁开眼的时间，
　　都是用来琢磨害人的，
　　而你不是。
　　当然退让也不是，
　　要任其发展。
　　要学会留痕迹，
　　凑齐了材料，
　　在关键的事上给予重创。
　　你要知道，
　　讨厌小人的人不止你自己。
　　Treat villains, if interests allow concessions, then concessions, if interests do not allow concessions, then confrontation. Remember, try not to confront villains, because the time they open their eyes is for thinking about harming others, and you are not. Of course, concession is neither. Let it develop. Learn to leave traces,
　　穷人因为赚钱难，
　　所以在买东西的时候，
　　更注重价格，
　　在价格合理的前提下，
　　能占到便宜，
　　那么他就非常愿意下单。
　　Because it is difficult for the poor to make money, they pay more attention to the price when they buy things. On the premise that the price is reasonable, they can take advantage of it, so they are very willing to place orders.
　　富人有钱，
　　所以从来不会因为消费，
　　去浪费自己的时间。
　　这就是为什么很多富人，
　　要雇保姆，要找管家，
　　并不是说为了排面，
　　而是这样可以节省更多的时间赚钱。
　　Rich people, so they never waste their time because of consumption. That＂s why many rich people, who want to hire nannies and housekeepers, don＂t mean to arrange noodles, but they can save more time and make money.
　　男人和女人的区别是，
　　男人因虚荣买单，
　　女人因情绪消费。
　　很多男人宁可花一千块钱，
　　买一身名牌，
　　却不愿意在吃碗面的时候，
　　多加个鸡腿。
　　为什么呢？
　　因为吃到肚子里的谁也看不见。
　　而很多女人在居家过日子的时候，
　　都非常仔细，
　　舍不得吃也舍不得穿，
　　可一旦受了委屈受了伤，
　　什么精打细算，
　　什么勤俭持家，
　　全都能让他们见鬼去。
　　除了消费能让她心情变好，
　　就再也没有其他了。
　　The difference between men and women is that men pay for vanity, while women consume for emotion. Look, many men would rather spend 1000 yuan to buy a famous brand than add an extra drumstick when eating noodles. Why? Because no one can see what they eat. As for women, in fact, many women are very careful when they live at home, reluctant to eat or wear, but once they are wronged and injured, they can all go to hell with what they are careful about and what they are diligent about. There is nothing but spending to make her feel better.