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　　标题：12ThingsYouShouldKnowBeforeDatingaWomanWhoDoesntMindBeingSingle
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　　Beingsingleisthisamazingwoman’schoice，notbecauseshehasbeenblacklistedbyhalfofthepopulation。Sundernomisconceptionthatsheisdefinedbyhavingapartner。Shedoesn’tworryaboutherrelationshipstatusbecausesheisfulfilledwithherself，withherlifeandchoicesanddreamsandpurpose。Sheisalsoprobablysurroundedbysuitorsbecausewell，confidenceissexy。Andtherearethingsyouneedtounderstandifyouareoneofthesethathopetowooher。
　　1。She’sprobablyhadherheartbrokenrecently。
　　Thismeansshewillbeextracautious，fragile，sensitiveandaware。
　　2。She’snotlookingtotakecareofyou。
　　Yourlaundry，cookingand“attaboys”arenotherresponsibility。Sheneedsyoutounderstandyourroleasaloverandpartner，notmother，maidorshrink。
　　3。Sheknowswhatshe’sinto。
　　Atacertainageweallknowhowwelikeourcoffee，howwelikeoursteak，andhowwelikeourmen（orwomen）。Thisselfawarenessishardwonandinaway，liberating。Sherespectsthebumpsandbruisesthatledtothisknowledge。
　　4。She’salionandaprincess。
　　Isshesittingaroundandwaitingtoberescued？Ha！Hardly。She’salion，outtheretakingchargeandmakingherownwayintheworld。Shedoeshowever，appreciategallantryandcourtesy。Andwilltreatyouinkind。
　　5。She’slookingforapartner，notacrutch（ifshe’slookingatall）。
　　Shelikesinspiration，acheersquadinhercornerandacomplexandchallengingpartner，butshedoesn’tneedit。Thereisnothingaboutaneedyrelationshipthatthrillsher。She’scompleteandvalidatedwithherselfandthroughherself。Sexy，isn’tit？
　　6。Sheappreciatesthefreedomtomakeasandwichat2a。m。Naked。
　　Livingalonehascertainappeal：freedom。Sherecognizesthisandrevelsinit。Askingpermissionandincessantunnecessarycontactisnotappealing，believeme。
　　7。Sheexpectsyoutohaveyourownlife，becauseshecertainlyhashers。
　　Sheknowsapersoncannotmakeanotherpersonwholeorcomplete。Arelationshipistheretoenrichyourlivesandsharewitheachother，soseeingyouhaveyourownfriendsandhobbiesgivesheragreatsenseofrelief。
　　8。Shefliessoloreallywell。
　　Shelikestalkingtostrangers，exploringnewthings，tryingnewfood，traveling。Thesemakeherfeelconnectedandadventurous。Herselfesteem，selfawarenessandselfreflectionareallhighandaccurate。Notthatshe’sperfect。Butshe’sdamncloseandhavingfunexperiencingallthatshecan！
　　9。She’sherown“KillerofSpiders”。
　　Forthis，shedeservesabadgeofhonor。Therearehandymentinkeringaroundfixingpartsandproblems。Shedoesn’tneedahandymanbecauseshe’fromfixinghercartoexterminatingarachnids，she’sgotthis。
　　10。Shelivesandloveswholly。
　　Shedoesn’tsettleforlessinaromanticrelationship（thatiscourageandstrongwill）。Shedoeshoweverloveherfamily，friendsandpreviouspartners。Sheisgivingtoallwhoshelovesandjustbecauseapreviousrelationshipended，doesn’tmeanitendedwithanimosity。
　　11。She’senjoyingit。
　　Shemightnotbe“attached”orinthe“it’sserious”stage，butyoucanbecertainshe’shavingahellofatimedating。
　　12。She’sastraightshooter。
　　Thatstuffwedidinmiddleschool：thegossip，insincerecompliments，dramaticploysforattention？It’snotinherrepertoire，there’snopointanditmakesnoonefeelgood。Whichdoesn’tmeanshedoesn’tengageinwittyrepartee，shejustchoosestorespectherselfandothers。